There is no specific love-compatibility zodiac match up
in Tarot Readings as the system is far
too complex as well as far too respectful of
individual realities to crunch the issue down into some quick fix tips.
One's love life is always a difficult business to navigate and
the Tarot helps you to take into account all the factors
of the situation as it is unfolding, not just the
'compatibility'. Nevertheless, there are certain propensities for the various signs of the zodiac
when they are in love. In the Inner Phases system of the
zodiac that we follow, there will be thirty-six phases to take
into account and not just twelve as in the classical
zodiac. We give a short account of each phase's behavior in love.
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A r i e s
Two of Aries (March 21 to March 30)
There is likely to be a great deal of compatibility and agreement
in any relationship this person enters into. Even if they begin
by disagreement it usually resolves itself. Very quickly, the
Two of Aries will convert the other person into a common dream
or goal that they will spend the rest of their life in achieving
or bringing about. The strains that will inevitably result in
any relationship are when this dream is lost sight of and both
parties go off track. Usually the Two of Aries is a wonderful
lover.
Three of Aries (March 31 to April 10)
These people fall impulsively in love. They usually meet their mate
in improbable situations or through the contrivance of friends.
A commonality of ideas, especially on the spiritual plane, is
the only real way this relationship can last. If that is taken
care of then all other matters become harmonious too. Be prepared
to do a lot of travelling to strange places with the Three of
Aries, if you want to keep the romantic interest alive.
Four of Aries (April 11 to April 20)
Until they are ready to settle down, their romances will prove to
be fickle and insubstantial. They seem to have a prolonged 'sowing
of wild oats stage' as they are afraid of making a mistake. Paradoxically,
domesticity brings out the best in them as lovers. They sink
gratefully into routine and convention and resist any abrupt
changes in the relationship with vigor.
Zodiac Signs
T a u r u s
Five of Taurus (April 21 to April 30)
These
people are stingy in love and slow to give commitments. This
is not because they are unloving or unlovable but because they
need to have financial security first before they will allow
thoughts of love to intrude. They are also prone to get entangled
with people who have a different point of view about life and
that cause some trouble. The Five of Taurus never really gets
comfortable with love until almost middle age.
Six of Taurus (May 1 to May 10)
A very comfortable sort of relationship will be set up as soon
as possible, as these people hate all sorts of strife and conflict.
The Six of Taurus is a great pillar of support and comfort for
those they love and can be relied upon implicitly. They are
not hung up about dominating the relationship and prove to be
quite flexible in changing circumstances. The health of the
Six of Taurus is always a good indicator of the health of the
relationship, waxing and waning in perfect lock step.
Seven of Taurus (May 11 to May 20) They
are extremely cautious in matters of love and have a tendency to
review and rethink and reexamine that will drive many people crazy.
A little bit of understanding of this personal quirk will
go a long way for anybody who is serious about the Seven
of Taurus. This constant navel gazing s how the person grows
into the relationship and the Seven of Taurus is far more likely
to judge themselves severely than their partner. They may make
some dramatic changes in their life after brooding so.
Zodiac Signs
G e m i n i
Eight of Gemini (May 21 to May 31)
For a brilliantly communicative sign like Gemini, it is astonishing
how many romantic problems they create for themselves. The Eight
of Gemini is charm personified in the early stages of a relationship,
but gets cold feet almost instantly after. They fear being tied
down; they fear loss of independence almost as much as they
fear being lonely and alone. This is obviously a strange yin-yang
of emotions to be in and not the most pleasant experience for
somebody involved with them.
Nine of Gemini (June 1 to June 10)
Two things are unforgivable for the Nine of Gemini. One is to be
unfaithful. The other is to be boring. Either one of these issues,
even if suspected at, is enough for them to turn off the relationship.
They also require your spotlight to be firmly turned upon them
at all times or they can be very grumpy. Be prepared for lots
of talk about what love is all about and where you are in the
mutual bond, but action will be less prompt. Jealousy is to
be watched out for.
Ten of Gemini (June 11 to June 20)
They are very wary about falling in love as they have an inspired
talent to get into relationships that end up badly for them.
Everything is red-hot passion for a while and then it turns
all horribly wrong. Don't depress their anxiety lever as they
believe in pre-emptive strikes, running away before they can
be dumped. The real issue here is for the Ten of Gemini to let
go of the past and try to find happiness with the person available
in the present.
Zodiac Signs
C a n c e r
Two of Cancer (June 21 to July 1)
While they are capable of deep love, they make the cardinal
mistake of confusing sexual attraction with love for a very
long time. This operates at a very deep instinctive plane and
it is many years before they get out of it. They also seem to
repeat the patterns of their loves so make sure that you are
not getting caught into some such action replay scenario. At
the deepest level they are earnestly seeking their soul mate.
Once found, all issues are resolved forever.
Three of Cancer (July 2 to July 11)
What is most important for the Three of Cancer is to have a good
time and romance should above all be fun. If dullness appears
in the relationship they soon pull out. This may not be fair
to other people but that is their nature. They also have the
habit of canvassing the opinions of friends and family in their
love life and going by that, so it is very important to be liked
by those two groups if you are serious about this person.
Four of Cancer (July 12 to July 21)
They have a curious sense of being unfulfilled and may have
many broken relationships as a consequence. While the romance
is on it becomes very important but there is always some flaw
that soon unravels it. Specifics are endlessly debated and gone
over and there is a tendency to constantly rework what has been
agreed upon. The Four of Cancer finds it difficult to love anybody
in particular, and may not be particularly loyal. A surprising
number of them end up on a spiritual quest, as love does not
give them what they are seeking.
Zodiac Signs
L e o
Five of Leo (July 22 to August 1)
Love is a matter of one-upmanship for many of them and even the
most relaxed Five of Leo is not capable of letting go of their
competitive instincts. They will always be trying to do you
one better and in the early stages of a romance this is great
fun, but it can become a real pain. If anybody else expresses
any interest in somebody they want then the Five of Leo goes
into romantic overdrive and is not too scrupulous about the
means employed to win the loved one. In some rare cases it means
that work will always be a rival for their affections.
Six of Leo (August 2 to August 11)
These people have the ability to wait for the perfect person to come
along and more often than not they are right! Again and again
they pass over reasonably good choices in what appears to be
unreasonable manners, but they know that there is something
and someone special out there for them and they are not content
with anything other than the best in their love life. There
is not too much verbalization of love here. Since the choice
fits perfectly, what do you need to talk about?
Seven of Leo (August 12 to August 22)
These people are commitment reluctant because inevitably they begin
to feel stifled, if not suffocated, in their relationships. Unlike
the Six of Leo, the Seven is not waiting for the perfect person
to come along. The Seven of Leo feels that their precious independence
will be lost with any person. This is a trying person to be
with as they remain in this stage for a great many years before
they decide it is not so bad after all. Any perceived rival
in love is enough reason for them to take off - or even worse
overreact - so be careful if you want their love. Also be prepared
for unusual amounts of arguments if you contradict them in anything.
Zodiac Signs
V i r g o
Eight of Virgo (August 23 to September 1)
These people agonize endlessly about the small details of their relationship
and indeed they are perhaps wise to do so. It is the small things,
the little quirks of habit and behavior, that become insurmountable
difficulties in later life. They know that unless the little
things go smoothly, the relationship will come apart when a
big crisis hits it. In their quest for the ever finer nuance,
they end up meeting some strange people
and going to unusual places to find love.
Nine of Virgo (September 2 to September 11)
They are people who go to great lengths to maintain harmonious bonds
with their loved ones. They prefer an atmosphere of ease and
comfort and they do not like disputes of any sort. Some of them
actually put up with passive abuse before they will take a stand
on this. They tend to fall quickly in love and stay there. Even
in rare cases where they are unfaithful, they will do anything
to keep the original relationship intact. The Nine of Virgo
repays loyalty and care in spades.
Ten of Virgo (September 12 to September 21)
They are rather quiet but immensely rich in their vein of romance.
It is best to meet this person when they have matured a little,
as the rewards are unbelievable. They have no romantic delusions,
but they have many romantic dreams and they will work hard to
achieve them. Their partners will find themselves in agreement
with practically everything. They are apt to find soul mates
while travelling, though in many cases they seem to attract
the right person through magnetism.
Zodiac Signs
L i b r a
Two of Libra (September 22 to October 2)
They are fascinated by and resentful of the romantic impulse.
The Two of Libra can swing from extreme to extreme and finally
end up in a situation where the best that can be said about it
is "Can't complain". This uneasy truce element is always at the
back of their minds and their partners have to be very careful
not to upset them. They are prone to break up on trivial issues
just to get out of deadlocks like this. Unless given lots of
free time for themselves, their romances all end up unluckily.
Three of Libra (October 3 to October 12)
A somewhat luckless sign in that these people have more than
their fair share of heartache if not heartbreak. Part of the
problem is a hanging on to the past when it is clear to everybody
around them that it is over. The uncertainties of change are
more fearful for them in a romantic context than the pain of
the present. The three of Libra will continue this seesaw until
they change their basic programs, one of which is that they
do not believe they can be loved by extraordinary people.
Four of Libra (October 13 to October 22)
The four of Libra is likely to be a very introspective sign requiring
long periods of time away form the relationship, while they try
to make sense of it. This rumination usually rebounds to the
credit of the person they are in love with, but panicky lovers
usually think they are about to be dumped. However, they are
prone to develop new relationships without totally canceling
the first. They suffer from a strong sense of being alone and
reassurance to the contrary does not work.
Zodiac Signs
S c o r p i o
Five of Scorpio (October 23 to November 1)
They move warily through the field of love, as they fear getting
burned. They also tend to have an idealized early romance against
which they judge all subsequent romances and find them wanting.
This is a trying trait for those in love with them. To let go
is not easy for them, and they may be prone to strange depressions
in the midst of a happy time. Sometimes, their usually fine judgement
is off and they realize that they have alienated the ideal person
with their glum moods.
Six of Scorpio (November 2 to November 12)
There is a childlike quality about the romances these people get into.
Beware of old flames making a sudden appearance in their life.
They are sure to check them out, not because they are unfaithful
but because of an overwhelming nostalgia that governs all actions.
They view all love affairs through a haze of sentiment, a disconcerting
trait in the Six of Scorpio who is as hardheaded as they come
otherwise.
Seven of Scorpio (November 13 to November 22)
They shilly-shally to an amazing extent and usually get married
only when they are given a final ultimatum by the loved one.
They would much prefer to be falling in love than settling down
in love. All their relationships seem to be disappointments
in retrospect, but that's because no love can always remain at such
a blaze! Once they accept that this sort of dream world will
not do, they become steady and considerate lovers.
Zodiac Signs
S a g i t t a r i u s
Eight of Sagittarius (November 23 to December 2)
They are very good at whirlwind romances. The Eight of Sagittarius
has an uncanny ability to get under the skin of someone and
rapidly establish a relationship of trust and closeness. They
are also very good at uncovering the spiritual beliefs of the
other person even thought they might not subscribe to them.
There is also a lot of honesty and clear and open communication,
though in some cases that becomes brutal frankness and disdain
for others.
Nine of Sagittarius (December 3 to December 12)
Things begin smartly, proceed well, but then the Nine of Sagittarius
needs to back off a bit and allow matters to be a bit less combustible.
They dislike cloying and clinging, though they are prone to
that fault themselves without quite realizing it. Any relationship
with them must include clear and compatible goals that are within
the realms of achievement. If not, there is really no hope of
a future together.
Ten of Sagittarius (December 12 to December 21)
Romantic entanglements prove themselves to be burdensome to this group.
They also manage to fall in love at the most inconvenient times
for their own sakes. Knowing this trait within themselves, they
are apt to go in for a series of shallow flings rather than
work at anything serious. Until they get their life goals clear,
any person who gets involved with them should not expect anything
long-term.
Zodiac Signs
C a p r i c o r n
Two of Capricorn (December 22 to December 30)
The romance works best if there are many, many spaces in the togetherness.
The Two of Capricorn almost always finds somebody to love who
is as driven and as busy as they invariably are. Love can become
a matter of schedules and co-ordination if they are not careful.
Perhaps they are smart, for these people have a love life that
always has the heat turned up. Anybody in love with them should
also be prepared for frequent changes in personality.
Three of Capricorn (December 31 to January 9)
These people come to love late in life, or at least comparatively
late in life. They have an intuitive understanding of when they
are mature enough to deal with complex emotions and avoid them
till then. Any difficulties and misunderstandings that crop
up are resolved with swift efficiency, as they do not like disharmony.
They are very loyal once their trust has been won.
Four of Capricorn (January 10 to January 19)
Even though they recognize it sometimes, the Four of Capricorn has
a habit of repeating past patterns of behavior almost as though
it was a compulsion. They make the same mistakes in love, or
find themselves involved with the same kind of person all over
again to the disgust and weary wonder of their friends. They
are also reluctant to call it quits, as a strong element of
nostalgia operates within them. Decisively forming new patterns
is the way they resolve these issues, but that takes time.
Zodiac Signs
A q u a r i u s
Five of Aquarius (January 20 to January 29)
Perhaps a more unromantic sign does not exist. Being creatures of the
intellect first, and so they should be, the Five of Aquarius
is a reluctant lover. They make many mistakes but primary is
the desire to dominate the other. This soon leads to resentment
in the other person and one more romance goes bust. To learn
to compromise even though they 'know better' is the most difficult
lesson for them. Once learnt they are fine, even unique, lovers.
Six of Aquarius (January 30 to February 8)
This person is likely to be a strange sort of lover in that they
are always looking for something new and they may also appear
to be taking more than a reasonable interest in other people.
They have ingrained commitment phobia and secure themselves
by falling in love with unsuitable sorts of people. They are
also prone to 'move on' for reasons that make sense only to
themselves. Even when they settle down, they are apt to be slightly
unsettling in their views.
Seven of Aquarius (February 9 to February 18)
The seven of Aquarius, like all Aquarius, is deeply suspicious of
getting tied down. They enter into peculiar relationships as
a consequence. If they feel trapped they are capable of slyness
and deceit, contrary to their usual honest nature. They are
very niggardly with their true feelings, preferring to analyze
those of their partner first before contributing anything in
turn. Straight talk alone works with these people, as they respect
that.
Zodiac Signs
P i s c e s
Eight of Pisces (February 19 to February 28)
The eight of Pisces is likely to be rather melancholy though they
are quite kind and caring. They are prone to sacrifice a lot
in their relationships, even more than they should. However,
once convinced that a bond has outlived its usefulness, they
can let go without any regret. This is a gradual process that
can be reversed at any time. Their personal goals also alter
slowly but firmly and if you are not in tune with that, they
fall out of love with you.
Nine of Pisces (March 1 to March 10)
These people are very intuitive and attract their soul mate at just
the right time. They may seem to be going along with no softer
emotions and suddenly they fall in love and get married. They
are also prone to find their mates in strange and unfamiliar
surroundings. They are surprisingly sensual and sexual beings
as their partners will learn to their delight. They cannot be
hurried into a relationship, however, until they are ready for
it.
Ten of Pisces (March 11 to March 20)
This person is always one step ahead of their partner in understanding
the nature of the relationship and what it requires now. They
are unquestionably the soul of the bond, though it might not
be visible, as they tend to be the quieter sorts. They detest
all forms of pretension and fakery, and none more so than in
matters of love. A long-term relationship with the Ten of Pisces
is almost a given, they do not go in for flings normally.
Zodiac Signs
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