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Come August and one sees stalls upon stalls in various kinds of
shops, big and small, all across the country filled up with Rakhis
(entwined silken or golden threads generally adorned by
beads) of all kinds, some with heavy embellishments and some very
simple ones, to be tied on the wrists of men. And women from all
age and social brackets throng to these stalls and purchase these
rakhis to be tied on the hand of their brothers and sometimes even
fathers on the day of Raksha Bandhan.
The same occasion is also taken due advantage of by young women
who tie Rakhis around the guys who have been making unsolicited
advances, the thread tying up their passion in the bargain!
The bond of protection
So, what exactly is the power of this thread and what does Raksha Bandhan mean? Raksha is the Sanskrit term for protection and Bandhan signifies a tie or relationship, so Raksha Bandhan in effect signifies a bond of protection between the two.
It is believed that when a woman ties a rakhi to the wrist of a man on the festive day of Raksha
Bandhan, he becomes obligated to protect and help her throughout
his life span. But the bond of protection is not a one way process.
The Rakhi is thought to have a dual effect. For the man the rakhi
ensures protection by the heavenly forces. In fact, this is the
reason that during times of war, women have tied rakhis to unknown
soldiers so that they are victorious and successful in protecting
the nation. These emotive scenes have been caught on camera when
during the 1971 Indo-Pak war women had come out in hordes tying
rakhis to all soldiers going towards the battlefront.
When one casts an eye on events around the world, which are of similar
notion, the closest that comes is the occasion of Friendship Day.
The Day that is quite popular in the western world where friends
affirm their friendship and find new ones.
But during Raksha Bandhan it is the involvement of the complete
Indian system - right from all members of the family to the environment
at work places and the atmosphere of happiness on the streets -
that lends a halo to this day of symbolic reverence. When one chances
on a man on the street with an armful of these threads with dials
of various sizes, one immediately feels the bigness of the heart
of the man and the fact that he has responsibilities of looking
after so many sisters. Unlike any other similar event, this is a
day of purity, of quite contemplation and of reminding oneself of
the importance of the roles in society.
The legends
According to the Hindu legends, Indrani, the wife of Indra, King
of the Gods, first initiated this sort of a bond of protection.
At the time of a huge battle between the Gods and the demons, the
latter seemed to be having the upper hand; this is when Indrani
decided to do something about it. She prepared a Rakhi and tied
it around her husband's wrist, to ensure that he would not only
be protected from attacks by the demons but would also emerge victorious.
And true enough, Indra and the Gods won the battle. So on a symbolic
note the rakhi (thread) is also a talisman ensuring protection of
the righteousness from the forces of evil. It is believed that the
tying of rakhi brings health, wealth, happiness and victories.
Another legend has it that once Yudhishthir, the eldest son of King
Pandu and one of the five Pandav brothers asked Sri Krishna, how
could he guard himself against impending evils and catastrophes
in the coming year. To this Krishna asked him to observe Raksha
Bandhan.
The same Sri Krishna was once injured on his hand and blood was
oozing out when Draupadi, the wife of the Pandavs, tore a portion
of her garment and tied it around his wound. For Krishna this signified
Raksha Bandhan and he immediately took Draupadi as his sister. In
fact, it was Sri Krishna, Draupadi called out to when she was being
derobed by the Kaurav (second cousins of the Pandavas and their
sworn enemies) prince Dushashan in the middle of the court after
her husband Yudhishthir gambled and lost her in a game of chess.
And ultimately Krishna protected her honour.
Cross-religion observance
Raksha Bandhan is one festival that is observed by Hindus and non-Hindus
alike. History has it that during the Mughal era (which lasted from
the 12th century AD till the 19th the century AD), the Sultan of
Gujarat attacked the Hindu kingdom of Mewar. This is when the queen
of Mewar Karmavati decided to seek the help of Humanyun, the second
Mughal ruler of India and father of the great Mughal King Akbar.
She sent a Rakhi to Humanyun asking for his help. Although, in other
circumstances Humanyun would not have helped a Hindu Rajput, but
he decided otherwise. However, unfortunately, he didn't manage to
reach on time and by the time he arrived, the Queen had already
performed Jauhaar (the act stepping into fire) along with
other Hindu women to protect their honour.
This probably was the beginning of a cross-religious observance
of this festival. And even today a lot of non-Hindus follow the
custom of Raksha Bandhan.
According to another story carried from time immemorial, All conquering
Greek King Alexander's wife also sent a Rakhi to the Indian Prince
Porus asking him not to slay her husband in battle. And the great
Hindu king responded and refrained from killing Alexander when such
an occasion presented itself in the course of the battle.
When and how is it celebrated
The festival of Raksha Bandhan falls on the Rakhi Purnima day
(generally in the month of August and sometimes late July).
This is the full moon day in the month of Shravan
according to the Hindu calendar.
Across the four corners of the nation, the day holds regional specific
significance. In the Northern part of the country, this
day is observed as they day to sow wheat or barley. On this,
which is also called Kajri Purnima or Kajri Navami, people
offer a special prayer to Goddess Bhagwati (a form of the
Goddess Durga, one of the prominent Goddesses of the Hindu
pantheon, who is also revered as the slayer of asurs
or demons).
In Western India, Rakhi Purnima is also called Nariyal (coconut)
Purnima.
This day is observed as Shravan Purnima in Southern states of
India and is especially important for the Brahmins (the
priests).
In Bengal, Rabindranath Tagore introduced this tradition in
Shantiniketan, an institution set up by the great poet,
with the aim of fostering love between people of all sects
and religions.
Some of the other names for Raksha Bandhan are Vish Tarak
(the destroyer of venom), Pap Nashak (destroyer
of all sins) and Punya Pradayak (one that bestows
boons)
The Ritual
On
this day, women get up early in the morning, take a bath and wear
their finest clothes. A thal (plate) is prepared on which
they put the Rakhi, a diya (earthen lamp), water, roli (red
threads), rice, vermilion or turmeric powder and some sweets. Then
the Rakhi is tied around the wrist and the sisters perform aarti
(a hymn sung to the Gods to ask for blessings. The process of
doing the same is lighting a lamp and chanting the aarti
with the lamp in the hand) after applying a tilak (application
of vermilion or turmeric mixed with 2-3 grains of rice and water
on the forehead). The tilak is put at the centre point between
the two eyebrows. It is said that the tilak indicates the
point at which the spiritual eye opens. After this they offer sweet
to their brothers, who in turn give them a gift or money so that
the sister can buy something of her choice.
In the modern avatar of this festival, sisters tie rakhis mainly
around their brothers and other male cousins' wrists. Some woman
also tie rakhis to men who are not related, but whom they consider
to be like a brother(s).
Wider significance
In a world full of crisis and strife,
these kind of rituals hold the key to peaceful existence. The auspicious
day of Raksha Bandhan can be used as a potent tool for social change,
which could ultimately envelop everyone in a permanent bond of love
and friendship.
- Vandana Mohal
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