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The
three concepts of Satyam, (truth) Shivam,
(God) Sundaram (beauty) are intimately connected.
What is beauty ultimately? In the human being it is the
facial expression, features of skin and hair. Some people
may lack these qualities yet appear beautiful.
When
we look at a beautiful man or woman or flower, our body
consciousness goes down and we feel happy. Normally, we
are full of turbulent thoughts, which keep us away from
happiness. As these thoughts reduce, happiness increases.
But this is a fleeting happiness as the following story
illustrates.
A
boy was studying for his exams in the midst of many worries
such as his father's retirement, his mother having pawned
her jewels to finance his education and his sister's impending
marriage. Unable to concentrate, he went to relax in a
nearby garden. There he happened to see a beautiful girl.
Beauty is a mental concept, developed from childhood.
Immediately he became happy and relaxed.
To
continue the story, he did well in his exams, got a good
job, married the girl, was given a company car and flat
and was successful. Exteriorisation of the mind makes
you happy - for a time. Rishis say for lasting happiness,
you have to go within.
Unfortunately,
he committed an error that caused the company loss of
money and reputation. His boss asked him to leave the
job in front of the whole office. Disturbed and depressed,
he went home. His wife tried to console him. But her beauty,
which had helped him earlier, had no effect now. It had
become familiar and his shock was too great for it to
matter.
In
the earlier case, it was the phenomenon (of the unexpected)
that had made him happy, not just her beauty. Anywhere,
anytime that body consciousness goes down, the mind becomes
calm and the way we look at the world changes.
We
experience real beauty when we find everyone and everything
beautiful. We see the beauty in the person, but more importantly,
we see the God within. Your outlook makes all the difference.
Possessive feelings (such as those between husband and
wife), or competitive or envious states kill love.
When
real love emerges, the concept of beauty goes towards
satya (truth). You go rhythmically from within
to without. There is no selfishness.
If
you want to reach God you have to go beyond vasana
(desire). Vasana is neither good nor bad, but at some
point we will automatically shed ill will or hatred. We
cannot force it; it must happen automatically, just as
a tree sheds dry leaves. This can only happen when the
light of gyan (knowledge), the light of 'Who am
I?' comes in. The I should not enter the picture for it
destroys everything. For example, imagine you are walking
along a street and see somebody fall down. The intention
and speed with which you go to his help is influenced
by factors such as, is he a friend, a close relation,
an acquaintance, a colleague, a Brahma Vidya student and
so on. In yuthan avasta (wandering mind), we act
out of our ego. It is false but it is the centre of our
being (ahamkara).
If
you wish to attain God or satya, you will see that
God is everywhere. Whether the person is a beggar, dirty,
or beautiful, should have no bearing on your behaviour.
The need of the hour is that some person has fallen down,
I can help, I have to help! Nothing more, nothing less.
Thus you come into the present tense. Here, you get pradnya
(insight), you get into totality's computer and your action
unfolds like a lotus. Earlier, you would have got emotional
(if the person were a close friend or relative), or worried
and not taken action. Action should be taken as per the
need of the hour. This can only happen by witness action.
We
return to our topic of beauty. There is beauty in every
aspect of your life; there is nothing, which is not beautiful,
because in every embodiment, even excreta or urine, the
functioning aspect is God. So you look at the God within
the excreta. It may be foul smelling and not edible, but
it is beautiful to the plant for whom it is sustenance.
We
tend to see beauty only in the apparent aspect, which
is fleeting. What you may find beautiful now you may not
tomorrow. Beauty can be the smile of an old man, a child,
a dirty woman. It is everywhere. Thus you can see that
Satyam, Shivam and Sundaram are all connected. You can
reach God through beauty, but conversely, you reach beauty
when you reach God. And the same with truth.
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